Wedding section

This is my wedding dress. Amye, my wedding consultant, handmade
everything but the dress itself. The headpiece and bouquet were
handmade out of silk flowers.

This is what the females in the wedding party wore. The flowers were
silk and made by Amye as well.
Pam's dress was made based on a description, a very tiny swatch of
material, and a pattern number that looked like what Linda Graddy (Maid
of Honor) and my sister, Missy Scanlon (Matron of Honor), were wearing.
Kim decided to take the honor of being her dad's Best Person since she
felt uncomfortable in girl clothes and I wanted her in the wedding.

This is the whole wedding party. My dad is on your left and Charles is
on your right...and as usual, if one of the Taylors (me, Missy, my Dad)
have their eyes open, the other two don't. I think it's a genetic
trait. It drives photographers nuts.

The Presbyterian Church was chartered in Greenville, SC on October 15,
1895. At the time it was built, it was out in the country. It now
resides right on the city limits and is surrounded by shopping areas,
grocery stores, and such. The average age is well up into the *gray
haired* brigade. I was one of the younger members at 42. The original
church burned so this sanctuary was a 40's version. When Charles and I
got married, the total membership was 63. Dr. Roger Kvam and Dr. C.
Newman Faulconer officiated at the ceremony.
The sanctuary was designed to hold only 80 people. Well, we had almost
every active member, and lots of family fill the church...they were
hanging from the rafters. We had done major refurbishing for the
centennial celebration the year before. We painted and scrubbed, found
the money for carpeting, re-did the bathrooms, and fixed up the
grounds.

My Mother wanted me to use pink with my navy bridesmaids dresses which
just wasn't me. So we compromised and gave her a Mother's Corsage that
had pink in it and it worked great with her teal dress.

Margaret Hayden, or Bark as I knew her, was my Dad's maternal aunt but
felt more comfortable at that time with my Mother. She also felt my
Mother needed someone to sit up in the front row of the church with her
since my Dad was with my stepmother in the second row. Bark died at the
age of 91 and she was 88 in this photo. It was, regrettably, the last
time I saw her.

This photo was taken in the front of McCarter Church with all of my
Dad's immediate family along with their children. Starting at the
bottom left, Amy Scanlon, Pam, Kim, Erin Scanlon (those two are my
sister, Missy's two), second row, Caroline Taylor, Dawn Taylor Figlio,
Missy Taylor Scanlon & Michael Scanlon, third row, Rick Figlio,
my
Dad, Wyllys Taylor, Lillian Robertson Taylor, and then me and Charles.

I didn't have the photo on the right planned because if I had, it never
would have happened. This is my dad with his three brothers. They
didn't want to all be in this photo but with everyone watching, they
really had no option. From left to right, Tom Taylor #3, my Dad #1, me,
Ed Taylor #2, and Joe Taylor #4.

This is Charles' immediate family. Pam is alone in the first row. Then
Diana Ramsey with Charles' oldest daughter, Kim. Top row is Charles
Burton Ramsey, Sr, with me and his son. Charles is an only child
himself, which is good and bad...no siblings to fight with but also no
siblings to support you in times of trouble or share the joy of special
occasions.

This is one of my favorite photographs. Yes, I know I'm not in it but
that's part of who WE are in this family. We are blended and it is
right to acknowledge that this unit existed before I was blended in.

This shot is of Charles and I with Floyd and Dora Pate, his maternal
grandparents who traveled down to see us get married Since Dora did NOT
approve of divorce and then remarriage, it was a real coup for us to
get her there. We lost his grandfather the next year to a heart attack
and diabetes complications. He was in his early 90's is all we know.
His grandmother, Dora died in April 2003, active and lively almost to
the end.

This one speaks for itself.

This was taken in Watkin's Hall. There is a fireplace behind us which
was a good focal point for most of our photos in that reception hall.
As to the cake, it was made by Amye, (yes, the same one) and is a
double layer topped by another tier. Mother said I got some of the cake
and there is even a photo of that but, to this day, I don't remember
what it tasted like.
That's it for this page, unless I find another I
want to
put up but there are other pages going up as I can fit them in. Hope
you enjoy this.
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